If you find yourself the victim of infidelity, do not be afraid to mourn your loss and seek comfort from others in your life, understand that you are not the least bit at fault for your partner's decision to cheat on you; and, after you have gone through the grieving process you can free yourself from the shackles of resentment through forgiveness.
It all begins with your family, and you must do all you can to improve the future generations, and those closest to you. All too often, society places the blame on the shoulders of our men for a broken family, emotional trauma, and our troubled youth. It is time to take control of ourselves and improve the well-being of those that depend on us. When men and women become parents, we must step up to the task of being the best parents possible under all circumstances. In many cases, we are unsure of ourselves, and we question how to parent our children.